One of the questions I hear most is whether my deaf and
deaf/blind dogs bark. While I would love
to be able to say no, the truth is, that yes, they do bark. As do my dogs that can see and hear. It’s what dogs do – they bark. If you are going to live with a dog, I think
you need to accept the fact that they bark.
However, sometimes that barking can be excessive and seem to be for what
humans believe is no good reason. Our
dogs, of course, always believe they have a good reason for barking. How do we strike that compromise that allows
our dogs to be dogs, yet protects our sanity as humans?
I think more often than not our dogs are confused when it
comes to barking. They don’t know
whether we want them to bark or not.
Sometimes we may acknowledge their barking positively to announce
visitors or even unwanted people on our property. Sometimes we may laugh at their barking if
they bark at something they think is scary but we think is cute. Sometimes we may haphazardly mumble to them
to knock it off or be quiet while we are otherwise engaged in some
activity. And still other times, we may
become downright scary in our attempts to get our dogs to be quiet. That doesn’t show the dog much consistency,
and it doesn’t help to make clear to him what we do want him to do.
Some of us have the problem that our dogs bark at every
little movement outside the window. But
if we leave our dog home alone all day with nothing to do but look out the
window, can we blame him? He sees
something new and exciting outside the window to give him something to do, and
he wants to join in! If your dog has a
consistent habit of barking, such as barking at things moving outside the
window, it may be easy enough to prevent your dog from having access to that situation. You can block your dog’s access to the window
or put him in another room while you’re away.
You can buy window films that will allow light to shine in, but will block
your dog from seeing out. There are
options only limited by your creativity.
Some dogs like to bark because it gets their person’s
attention. Sometimes we are aware of
this behavior, such as when your dog comes and sits by the cabinet and barks
for you to give him a treat, or if he sits and stares at you and barks until
you pet him or toss his toy. But other
times it is hard to tell that what your dog wants is actually your
attention. He may bark and you may tell him
to be quiet and if he barks again, you may get up and go to him to try to make
him be quiet. The problem is that if
your dog only gets attention when he is barking, he may want your attention
enough to get in trouble to get it.
Instead, try paying more attention to your dog any time he
is being quiet. A gentle scratch behind
the ears or a belly rub, a tasty treat dropped quietly by his side while he
chews a bone … these things will go a long way toward minimizing excessive
barking. Behavior that is reinforced
(rewarded with something the dog likes) will tend to happen more often! So, paying attention to a quiet dog will tend
to give you a quieter dog. Paying
attention to a barking dog will tend to give you a dog that barks more.
Decide in your mind what type of barking you will
allow. It’s not fair to a dog to expect
no barking. Imagine if someone forbid
you to speak or make noises – ever!
Yikes! So, when will you allow or
even appreciate barking? And in what
situations would you like to diminish the barking? You have to decide before you can teach your
dog the difference.
I like to teach my dogs a quiet cue by rewarding them for
being quiet. Even my deaf dogs learn a
quiet cue. The end result is that when
they are barking, I can give them the quiet cue and they know it is time to be
quiet now. But in the beginning, they
need to learn what quiet means. How do
you explain to a dog what quiet is? When
a dog is barking, you can yell quiet all you want, but if the dog doesn’t
already know what quiet means, he is unlikely to figure it out in that
moment. He is just as likely to think
you are yelling, “The pizza guy is here!”
I teach the quiet cue by giving the cue when my dogs are
already quiet and then rewarding them immediately. Any time I am reinforcing my dogs for being
quiet, I cue them “quiet” and then praise them and reward them with things they
like. They begin to learn that when I
say quiet they will get a reward, and they begin to have an inkling that this
only happens when there is no sound coming out of their mouths.
The next step is to get their attention on me when they are
barking. I want the dog to look at me
and be paying attention. Sometimes this
requires a touch to distract the dog long enough that he turns to see what I
want. I immediately give the quiet cue
and reward immediately. The reward has
to come fast in the beginning before another bark can be said. I keep containers of treats around my house
in various areas to reward good behaviors quickly.
There are other things that can help communicate to your dog
that things are not as exciting as he thinks they are. If you immediately jump up and run to the
door whenever someone arrives, you are showing your dog how to behave – to jump
up and excitedly rush to the door. Dogs
bark when they are excited! Instead, put
a sign outside your door asking guests to be patient as you may take a while to
get to the door. Take your time getting
to the door. Move and speak calmly.
When your dog barks, try to redirect him to do something
else. Even if you haven’t taught the
quiet cue yet, you can run the other way (from what he’s barking at) and get
him to chase you for a fun game, toss a toy for him to chase, have him go to
the dog bed (if he already knows how to do that), etc. Make sure you are breathing deeply and
calmly. If you are tense and holding
your breath (which we often do when we are concentrating or hurrying), your dog
will also be tense – and, you guessed it – tense dogs bark!
Lastly, but not any less important, be sure you reward your
dog for being quiet when you want him to be.
Even if he just pauses for a moment before barking when he sees that cat
outside or hears a noise, be ready to praise him and really reinforce his
behavior with something he thinks is great!
Remember, if you pay attention to a quiet dog, you will get a quieter
dog!
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